The site looks much better. I like the fact it is easier to view the products as well.
I just re-read your original post. 'I believe it is a great company, and after failure in my life it is going to be what redeems me as a person.'
You have five beautiful kids, a beautiful wife, and a sixth child on the way. You serve in our military protecting my rights as a citizen. (Thank You) This is not failure. You may be struggling and you may be facing large debt but never confuse success and failure by the size of your checkbook.
I am a big supporter of wounded warriors. It is a charity I added to my yearly donation list last year.
As for your business, I like the idea. I think your website needs some work. I know that costs money, however, I think there are some things you can do at no cost. First thing I would suggest is changing the color scheme on the home page. It isn't very easy on the eyes and it is more about you rather than your product. If I came across it by accident I would think it was a blog. Additionally, your phone number in the homepage gets lost in the colors as well.
I do like the color scheme in the buy it now section. Maybe you should utilize that scheme throughout the site. I would put your write up on the homepage under an about us link.
Sounds like a great plan! Wounded Warriors is a wonderful organization! Don't give up!